black screen

So i have the das bamf root on my thunderbolt. no problems at all. But this morning i had this bright idea to add a lock screen kernel on my phone. I went thru rom manager and did it. phone rebooted and now all i have is a blank screen and a status bar up top that i cant do diddly with..... Tried calling the phone and it has no touch screen capability.... tried to go into bootloader and it goes into fastboot no matter what i do. Am i royaly screwed? my wife is going to kill me.... help.
Oh and i can't get into phone thru computer because its in charge only mode which i can't change